I know, not off to the best start. Basically, I met this guy on the last day of both of our vacations abroad. We spent a whirlwind evening + morning after together, etc. The connection was crazy (physically and emotionally), we both admitted to liking eachother, and he promised to see me again. Typically that’s where it would end, but he’s taken the initiative to reach out (calling or texting) ever since then, and has brought up coming to visit me soon. We live a short flight away.
I was absolutely not looking for anything before I met him, and honestly still don’t have any expectations. BUT he makes me want more? I’m honestly just super confused and I don’t want to put my heart into it just to get hurt, especially because we barely know eachother.
He’s mainly a green flag, intelligent, well spoken, good family, good friends (met some of them), good value system, good future plans, etc.
I know I like him a lot but I’m not sure if the attention is getting to my head or if I’m jumping the gun. I’ve literally found myself going out to do things to keep my mind off of him - which is mildly concerning/embarrassing. I also don’t particularly know how he feels beyond that he likes me. I also don’t really have the bandwidth for more than one person at a time so I can’t build a roster to distract myself :/
Anyways- I guess I just want thoughts on what I should be doing moving forward. Do we think there’s a chance that this could be something more? Or is this just a fling that will die off?