I fuckin hate it here….
SD 13 threw an epic fit last week because I take MY child to get her nails done and not her. She proceeded to send me disrespectful texts messages because I said I would bring her next time. DH stepped in and told her she was grounded from the phone I gave her. She then proceeded to call him childish. Again disrespectful. She then told DH she wasn’t coming “until things change over here” She essentially was trying to get out of giving up the phone. BM is POS and condoned her behavior. So no help there. Well this weekend is “our” child’s bday. We reached out to see if she was coming and she says. “Idk” So DH calls her, pretending like nothing fucking happened. I loudly said I want the phone this weekend too, make sure you tell her. He looked shocked I even said that. Like wtf you wonder why this child disrespects me and you! No fucking parenting here or her mom’s house. So now my child’s bday weekend is going to be filled with her shit attitude and her shit breath (she doesn’t brush her teeth). I’m literally contemplating getting a hotel room the weekends she’s here. I cannot stand it anymore. And trying to talk to DH is like talking to a rock. He’s more interested in being her friend than her parent.