u/ExcellentStudent188

I am trying to understand how you might document recurring issues in a factual+useful way.

Specifically, how do you record things like handover timing, delays, incomplete sharing of child-related information or books, medicines, gatekeeping of school updates, attendance at important events, payments, and similar practical issues?

Also, when there is disrespectful behaviour during exchanges or in front of the child, what level of detail is worth recording and how do I take corrective action so that the child is not affected as well as the boundary of respect is maintained.

My son is 10 years old and I've been failing at this for more than 8 of those years. I hope you can help.