u/ExcellentFinish7657

This is the original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1pwko3w/comment/nw4d649/?draft=1&reply=t1_nw4d649 Well... I'm really disappointed, but it's more like anger, besides feeling stupid. I lost my virginity to him in March... And the second time we had sex was in April, and he broke up with me three days ago. The day before the breakup, he was the one who texted me first, at 5 a.m., when he was leaving for university. I was already at work, but when I got back, I texted him. I told him about my day and asked about his, and he didn't reply. Finally, that night, I sent him the usual "goodnight, I love you," but he didn't even see it, even though he got the messages. The next day, I texted him first, even though he hadn't answered my previous messages. By midday, I was starting to worry because he wasn't replying. I called him, but he kept hanging up until around 2 p.m. when he sent me a two-minute voice message. I quote: "Look, I'm going to be honest with you. I care about you, I care about you a lot, but I don't love you. You've shown me in many ways that you care about me, but I can't give you that. You deserve someone who loves you. You always want to talk to me, and sometimes I don't want to talk to anyone, and I don't think it's fair to keep you in this situation, so I think it's better to end things." Honestly, when I heard that, I broke down... But I told him okay, fine, and I blocked him. But then I got angry and unblocked him. I told him that if he didn't love me, why did he ask me to be his girlfriend? Why did he start all of this? Why did he do that to me? Why did he insist when I rejected him because I didn't feel ready for a relationship? And then he comes and does this to me... I told him other things that he clearly ignored, and I warned him I was going to block him. The last thing he said to me was, "I hope this bad experience doesn't stop you from meeting someone who loves you the way you love them." It makes me so angry because I knew... He didn't congratulate me on International Women's Day, he didn't give me anything on Valentine's Day, while I planned a movie date with snacks and gave him a Barça jersey. On my birthday, he came to congratulate me at 3 p.m., while on his, I stayed up until noon to congratulate him and even made him a Clash Royale chest with his favorite sweets and other little things besides the money and cards I gave him just because... It makes me so mad that my first boyfriend turned out like this... And apparently, he already has someone else. I feel completely stupid.