Divorce is bound to happen
The reason for divorce is my fault. I cheated with a MLB player over spring training. We’re 33 years old. Been together 14 years married for 2. Have two kids together. We have a horrible history of verbal abuse, cheating on both sides. He’s been physical with me causing concussion one time. Choked me before, etc. he cheated on me 3 years ago bringing some girl into our home, showed up to my work with her to harass me. Went on for months. Ultimately i took him back but it put me in a huge depression. I was so sick and i clung to him after. I basically cried about it for 2 years straight until i got better. We got married one year into getting back together. Everything has been “fine” over the last 3 years meaning no physical abuse or cheating but he went back to bare minium, no effort, putting me down etc this past year. Fast forward to january i got a DM from the baseball player and talked to him since then and ultimately hooked up with him. To me it was just an opportunity and I was already checking out with my husband… again… anyways he went thru my phone re downloaded whats app and saw alll the messages and now is saying I ruined our family and im the blame for it all. I dont feel bad for him i feel bad that our kids may be affected. Any support is appreciated thanks for reading if you got this far