u/Excellent-Ratio-8167

Every now and then I will have a notification of a new friend suggestion of a blank account. It has a real name, always different but no picture or other information. I can sometimes see how many friends or posts they have but can’t see the actual posts or friends list.

I usually block these accounts and Facebook does say that they don’t block their other accounts but they do restrict how their other accounts can interact with me.

This is from facebooks written information regarding messenger specifically but I cannot find anything about all of Facebook.

“You'll also need to block their profile from other Facebook profiles you may have or that you create in the future. If the person you blocked has more than one Facebook profile, blocking one of their profiles will limit how their other profiles can interact with you. Learn more about having multiple Facebook profiles.”

What I’m asking is how does Facebook specifically restrict their other accounts and does it block any new accounts they make in place of the account I have blocked?

After initial mention. Currently not knowing when the hearing date will be scheduled. I am expecting it will likely line up with time working on a FIFO schedule.

I tried googling it. It said something about the prosecutor needs to consent.

This is for a dvo. The police did not place this dvo. The aggrieved applied for it at the court house.

Who is the prosecutor in this case? Is the prosecutor still the police or is it a legal term for the person who wants me to be charged?

Edit: based in qld for reference

Specifically looking for someone who understands the court process and to dm me. I don’t really want to post much of this publicly.

So I do have a lawyer but he is a busy man and doesn’t really want to talk much about it until my ex has all her stuff together for me to respond to.

What will say publicly. I was very suspicious on her behaviour after a trip to another city with very little warning where she was using chat gpt to create images that backed up her story of going to that city while telling me not to contact her while there. There was plenty of other things I was suspicious of.

So after all this I went through her phone and found that she had been cheating on me and a whole lot of other things. I confronted her about this and she admitted to cheating on me. Btw there’s a language barrier as English is not her first language so when I eventually said the word “sex”. She said no I didn’t have sex with him. Now I couldn’t just leave her there and then because she probably did/didn’t cheat on me as I was sponsoring her partner visa and we wouldn’t be able to be together in Australia again if it turns out that she actually didn’t cheat on me. I needed to know the truth and she was absolutely sticking to her story.

I did go through her phone a few more times after that. And I did log into her instagram on my phone. And did quit my job. And every time I saw queues that she was leaving I drained the joint bank accounts thinking she was just going to go back home and leave me with no money or job. (She did not contribute to the savings in those joint accounts) she also had savings of her own which would go a very long way in her home country compared to what I was taking out of the joint accounts. I was also not allowed to have my own savings as every time she saw me saving money she got upset that I wasn’t trying hard enough to buy a house with her. I am not proud of my actions.

Eventually after she started making mistakes with her story, and I could actually see her working on an exit strategy while showing me she douesnt want to be with me anymore I decided that I’ve had enough of all of this and that’s it I am taking back what I put in and breaking up with her. Kicking her out in the form of “I know you have to go back to your home country so I will post anything that you forgot to take or don’t have room for in your luggage” (she doesn’t have any other immediate visa options and I really wasn’t expecting her to try for any other long term visa options for permanent residence here, she had expressed in the past that she isn’t interested in those options at all) she decided to go to a friends house telling me which friend that is too. Also made a comment about how she wanted to have sex with me but couldn’t handle it. The course of the 3 year relationship there was consistently times we would go months without sex. Much less than I want but not a deal breaker. I honestly was just happy to be with her.

I also wanted the car back that I payed for (it’s registered in both of our names) I wanted to know if she was leaving it on the side of the road or going to communicate with me about it. She went silent so I put it on my Linkt account to see if it’s still being used.

The police then interviewed me and chose not to place a dvo on me. Then shortly after that she went to the court house and applyd for a dvo there. I now have a temporary dvo which I am choosing to challenge. It’s worth noting that she needs the dvo to apply for a domestic violence visa and her statements in the application for the dvo actually says “since I have to leave Australia”

What I want to know is how cooked am I. I have heard that much worse than this has just been dismissed. No idea if that’s really how it works. I don’t want anything else to do with this woman and was only choosing to help her with posting things because I’m not fucking evil. I only want back what I put in. After all she was allowed to have her own personal savings while I was only allowed to save in joint back accounts with her. Any cars we had were because I payed for them too.

If you need to know more to give me any real advice please dm me

First off. I have a lawyer. However they’re being kinda vague with certain things aaaaand…. There is the chance that what they’re telling me isn’t the truth for the sake of collecting payment from clients. After all I am paying for legal advice/ support, not paying to win.

So my ex and I had two cars. One was in both of our names. She contributed about $2500 to the $17000 cost of that vehicle. And there’s another vehicle in my name. Her name is on the finance for that vehicle.

We also had a shared account for bills which she contributed half of the cost of rent to, while using money from that account to pay for various personal expenses. I contributed enough to that account to pay the rest of the bills and save in that account.

We also had a shared savings account which she contributed about $2000 to, at one point there was just under $70000 in there. This was savings for a deposit on a home loan. The rest of the contributions were from my wages. Every week I transferred a set amount to that account. Half of it was to another of my accounts and the other half to another of her accounts, then we both transferred that amount to the savings account.

Something happened that caused a breakdown in the relationship. We both spent the money in the savings account (me more than her). Then ultimately we split up and I took whatever was left in the shared accounts as I had no personal savings while she did have savings of her own.

Now she has had her lawyer offer a settlement of giving her half of what once was in the savings account and a few other things.

There is much more to this than I have written. Especially the criminal side which I have really not mentioned at all except for the title. If you’re a lawyer who would like to discuss this with me please dm me.

Really want I’m looking to know is how cooked am I, and do the things my lawyers are saying to me have much truth to them.