u/Excellent-Peace2368

My bf (27) and I (25) have been going back and forth regarding his porn addiction and how it’s been effecting his view on our relationship. For example, he has repeatedly asked me if I’d feel comfortable experimenting with women so he can watch even though I’ve made it crystal clear I’m not bisexual in anyway shape or form and do not wish to do anything with anyone else besides him. He has since then promised to forget about it after we had a huge argument and he realized how badly it hurt me. However, now he has asked me if he could buy a pocket (toy) for himself for times when we cannot have intercourse and that way he can have something other than his hand when he watches porn. I thought it would be nice to show him how it feels to be a forethought and told him that was fine because we could both use some alone time to pleasure only ourselves while watching porn. The idea made him a little upset and he told me “I’m right here.. why would you need to do that?” 🫠 I think he missed the irony. Just wanted to vent and see what others think.