Is it wrong to look at someone’s social media?
I (F24) have been messaging and calling a guy (M26) a lot for two weeks and were planning on going on a date when I’m back from my trip.
He got really drunk one night and sent me some voice messages saying how pretty and smart I am and how he really likes talking to me. He also told me how when I call and text him around his friends he smiles and gets made fun of by them. And also talking about how he is my car guy now and will do everything for it. We were only really talking for like two weeks but I was getting a little overwhelmed and felt kinda love bombed.
He talked about how he values his privacy but I immediately found his public Instagram and browsed to make sure he was like real and safe if I wanted to continue talking.
Like two days after that he didn’t reply all day when normally he messages and calls a lot so I went to look at his Instagram and now it’s private.
I’m assuming I probably liked something or whatever but I feel like it’s normal to look up someone you haven’t met in person online especially if your account is public?
I guess I just wanna know if I was overstepping boundaries by looking at his social media and if I should message him to see if he is all good