How do I care for people
I realize I genuinely don’t care about people. It’s the details that overwhelm me everything
I look to my left and my sibling shooting 100 questions per minute and I’m like how are you gonna memorize all that details? Why are you asking that to fill with useless information in your head.
How are you gonna remember that her grandma is having 80th birthday and she’s going to a cruise in Cancun with her family friends and that the details of the location on cruise. The story of that grandma entire life. The grandma’s diet. How she gone thru the Great Depression and blah blah.
Because if that was me, the next time we reunite. I’m gonna forget.
My coworker is the definition of “caring”. I never met anyone like her. She memorizes what I tell her and I’m surprised because I can’t memorize the name of my favorite movie or the clothing brand I wear. Not only that, she does it with everyone.
I have tried writing all the details after social interaction. When the next interaction comes, I forgot what I need to ask.
I mean this entire social thing is like a chore.