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whenever i start talking with someone a and like having a lot of conversations
actually listening to me talk about random topics, and even bothering to interact
I end up getting both emotionally and kinda romantically attached
it doesn't happen straight up but rather like over a few weeks but it's hard to brush off
the actual problem is that I dont even want a relationship currently
But my brain still goes there anyway I start overanalyzing everything and texting more than I probably should even when I'm trying to calm things down in my head
but once I realise what’s happening i try to back off because I dont actually want anything with the person and it's genuinely annoying and I end up feeling kinda hurt which is ridiculous because nothing even happened
im js trying to understand why basic attention affects me this much and how to stop getting attached when I dont even want it
how does someone even deal with this