u/Every_Put_8085

I’ve liked this one girl for a while and both our families already know each other, I’ve started taking to her recently and things are going well, my issue is that I’ve been cooked by the job market and I’m not in the best financial position to get married especially because of housing prices etc, I’ve also found out she would like a big wedding. how should I go about this and what should I do as I’m drawing blanks Icl, both our timelines would ideally be a year and a half max, I feel like I’m dragging it if it’s more. any advice would help it’s a sensitive topic as the man and the provider please be blunt.