I ‘46M’, my gf ‘45F’ we’re together 3 years
We don’t live together but seen each other 1/2 times during the week and most weekends unless we’re working ,, we generally get on really well but when I’m invited to watch a football game with my mates or go on a bike trip for a day or maybe even a few days the trouble starts ,
I bring it up in conversation and her mood just completely changes and she’s so angry that she’s not invited,, like we have a lot of vacations together, city breaks etc , we took a massive 25 day bike trip just the two of us last year , so we get plenty of of tiime together ,,
If I do decide to go on a trip with my mates , there’s trouble right up till the day I’m going and then I’m not in touch enough while I’m away ,
This has happened 3/4 times over the last few years and it has me thinking like Jesus is this going to be like this forever 🤷🏻♂️
Her friend circle isn’t very big and I’m always encouraging her to do the activities she enjoys, if there’s a work night out I’m
Like you go and have fun ,
If I’m on a work night out she’s at home pissed coz I’m not with her 🤷🏻♂️