u/EveryAdvice2970

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NOT looking to sext <3

Age range:22-29.

Hi. I'm muslim. You have to be too. I dont make the rules.

You dont have to be north african although ce serait un bel atout haha.

If you've already texted me before, consider reaching out again, I dont text everyone at once because I dont really have that much free time.

So I'll start by saying I'm muslim, north african, in uni. Not planning to drop out. I have too much pent up trauma (especially when it comes to men) to date people from school or the gym. So I chose the online route. I think by now we all know the apps are... interestingly good at making you wanna be a cat lady. I dont even like cats. That's how/ why we're here.

I don't think we have to be interested in the same things to match. I'm a bookish girl, a bit nerdy. I love learning new stuff. Currently working on my cooking skills. I always loved baking but when I was a kid I hated the smell of casseroles and such (my loss, I know) so it never occurred to me that I would fall in love with cooking. I still hate doing the dishes though. I also journal a lot and im very in touch with my emotions. It started as a silly little thing I did as a kid and turned into a coping mechanism.

I don't drink or smoke. The only drug im addicted to is caffeine. This is a dealbreaker for me. If you do any of those, we are not made for each other. I once let it slide and I now know no one can change my mind about it.

Another dealbreaker is if you dont want kids.

I prefer to state the dealbreakers on my post so I dont have to go through the trouble of asking about them later on in the conversation as it can be quite intimidating.

I dont date for funsies but I dont want it to be a boring process either. I do however wanna be married in 3-5 years.

I dont date broke AND broken guys. Pick the latter though- I can handle that.

I'm a fixer but one thing im not willing to deal with is lack of communication and avoidants. You gotta work on that all by yourself. No, seriously, I'm a clingy girl and if we text twice a day and call at leaaaaast once a month it won't work for me. I need at least an hour per day of blabla back and forth.

Last but not least, I'm kinky, if you can't handle it I'll pass.

If you've read this far, thank you. If you're interested, text me with your own list of dealbreakers.

L ; )

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u/EveryAdvice2970 — 12 days ago
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Age range:22-29.

Hi. I'm muslim. You have to be too. I dont make the rules.

You dont have to be north african although ce serait un bel atout haha.

If you've already texted me before, consider reaching out again, I dont text everyone at once because I dont really have that much free time.

So I'll start by saying I'm muslim, north african, in uni. Not planning to drop out. I have too much pent up trauma (especially when it comes to men) to date people from school or the gym. So I chose the online route. I think by now we all know the apps are... interestingly good at making you wanna be a cat lady. I dont even like cats. That's how/ why we're here.

I don't think we have to be interested in the same things to match. I'm a bookish girl, a bit nerdy. I love learning new stuff. Currently working on my cooking skills. I always loved baking but when I was a kid I hated the smell of casseroles and such (my loss, I know) so it never occurred to me that I would fall in love with cooking. I still hate doing the dishes though. I also journal a lot and im very in touch with my emotions. It started as a silly little thing I did as a kid and turned into a coping mechanism.

I don't drink or smoke. The only drug im addicted to is caffeine. This is a dealbreaker for me. If you do any of those, we are not made for each other. I once let it slide and I now know no one can change my mind about it.

Another dealbreaker is if you dont want kids.

I prefer to state the dealbreakers on my post so I dont have to go through the trouble of asking about them later on in the conversation as it can be quite intimidating.

I dont date for funsies but I dont want it to be a boring process either. I do however wanna be married in 3-5 years.

I dont date broke AND broken guys. Pick the latter though- I can handle that.

I'm a fixer but one thing im not willing to deal with is lack of communication and avoidants. You gotta work on that all by yourself. No, seriously, I'm a clingy girl and if we text twice a day and call at leaaaaast once a month it won't work for me. I need at least an hour per day of blabla back and forth.

Last but not least, I'm kinky, if you can't handle it I'll pass.

If you've read this far, thank you. If you're interested, text me with your own list of dealbreakers.

L ; )

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u/EveryAdvice2970 — 17 days ago