u/Every-Result-4219

What Should I Do?

I (17 enby masc, andro) am dating someone (16 m gay) who has seemed to become slightly distant lately. He is homeschooled and lives a significant distance from me. He says he spends most of his time working and doesn't see my messages but the status icon says he is online on Discord the entire day. I'm afraid that maybe he's losing interest in me. We've been together for a bit over a year now and I love him with all my heart.

I'm worried I'm just worrying too much and being too clingy. I feel like maybe I ask for too much.

I'll also bring up something that I need to let out because it has affected me emotionally and he just dismissed it. Today I told him that the raccoon who has been visiting my yard for about two years died on my back doorstep and I had to clean it up. I told him how sad I was and he just told me it wasn't a big deal. I guess it really wasn't something I should have gotten upset over. It's only an animal ig

I feel like I should just let him message me when it works for him and try not to really bring up anything too personal or emotional.

I'm honestly just wondering if I've been a bad partner...

[Quick Edit] Relationships are hard for me but I'm trying my best. My last two relationships kinda left me traumatized so trying again has been difficult but I really am trying my best

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u/Every-Result-4219 — 7 hours ago