I met a woman late last year and our relationship was fast and intense. She pursued me initially and I bought into it. We met at work and normally, I avoid these situations but I thought this time would be different.
It wasn’t - it became just a bunch of back and forth often her trying to hold me to a standard she wouldn’t hold herself to and avoiding commitment.
For the sake of writing a long story to give details I’ll skip to the end. April 5th, I told her it was for the best we don’t talk anymore. She simply said, “oh ok” and I left her with this, “I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and I think I’m holding on to something that won’t happen. At this point, I can’t be your friend and I just need to move on”
She left this on read. From here, neither of us removed each other from our socials and continued to orbit each other. I decided on Saturday to remove her completely, so I would resist the urge to check her stuff even if I won’t reach out.
However, this morning a friend of mine at work showed me her IG story hours after I blocked her. This story showed her kissing another man…..this man also works with us and mind you, he received a DUI not even three weeks ago.
I thankfully do not see them as our shifts no longer align, they’re over nights and I work in the mornings.
While I know the details aren’t there, we weren’t going to be good for each other and she had a lot of avoidant tendencies however this situation has left me grappling with my self-worth and I feel so torn up seeing this video, why would this man be chosen ya know?