Ok backstory AND YES I know it’s weird and wrong, but he’s super handsome.
I (21,f) have somewhat of a Situationship with someone who’s way older (42,m). We’ve known each other for years because his ex wife was my kindergarten teacher and I’ve been babysitting their children for years now (they call me mom 2.0 which makes all of this even worse). A few months ago I ACCIDENTALLY made a move when we had a party in our village and we’ve been secretly meeting up ever since and it’s sooo good,he’s super respectful and sweet. Now obv I know this will/can never be serious and we both don’t want that. He also has another situationship (f,58). All of this aside, I’ve realised that men his age flirt VERY differently than men my age would and I don’t know how to deal with it. His texts are so so freaky and sometimes I honestly cringe when reading them. Anyways I spent time with his children yesterday and when I wanted to walk home he gave me one of his jackets bc it was too cold to walk home in my outfit. The jacket is laying next to me rn and I’m honestly thinking about taking soft ndes in it for him. WOULD A 42YO FIND THIS HOT OR WAY TOO WEIRD???
UPDATE: I sent the pics bc honestly yolo and bro LOVED IT. If you EVER have the chance to do this or something similar DO IT. He went absolutely feral hahaha