u/Evening_Increase3783

Problem/Goal: my bf opened up to me sunod sunod. first, he lied about his sexual past, telling me na the ex before me was actually his first sexual experience. pero ang kwento niya before sakin is madami na siyang experience, the reason why he lied was because insecure siya about my sexual past (i had 2 exes before him). tapos he also confessed na he emotionally cheated on me 5 times during the relationship, at isa pa don yung ex nga niya before me. ang tanong ko lang is, worth it pa ba ipagpatuloy itong rela? if you were in my shoes? kaya pa ba ito madala sa usapan?

EDIT: yung revelation about the past sexual experience, sinabi niya 5 years later on in the relationship. then after a month inamin niya din na he emotionally cheated on me 5 times kasi sobrang guilty na daw siya

Problem/Goal:
i tried to loan money from a friend and her energy towards me changed

Context:
she's my high school best friend and we reconnected last 2024. recently i've opened up to her about my mom. my mom's currently battling stage 4 cancer, and she told me that if i ever needed help with money, i can always reach out to her. when i did try to loan cash from her, she told me she'll talk to her mom about it. then after a few days she messaged me and told me that she opened up my problem to our friend group so they could also initiate to help, i felt a shift in her energy also in her message and she's no longer speaking to me until now :( she didn't lend me money also

Previous Attempts: none

is there anything i can do to save the friendship? as of the moment i'm not in the right headspace to do so because i'm still in the process of finding enough money for my mom's chemotherapy since i'm a breadwinner 🥹 but i would appreciate some advice on what i can do