My bf is unreliable and what do I do 😭
My bf (29) and I (25) have been dating for about a year and I've noticed that he's is (a lot of the time) unreliable. He often forgets small things or part of tasks I ask him help for, and so I find myself not asking him for help unless it's something I cannot do, I am a little hyper independent and that's something I'm trying to work through as well but it doesn't help that he ends up seeming unreliable even though he tried super hard not to be. like the other day I asked him to bring my stuff from his and gave a list, which he double checked and still left behind 2 things which I urgently needed. I'm exhausted of having to have a back up with any help I ask with him involved. I tried to be empathetic but I think I'm reaching a breaking point so how do I manage this or what resources could help him get better with this? I don't think my ADHD coping mechanisms work for him either so I feel stuck not knowing how to help.