AITB for sleeping with my friend in a wedding.
I’m a 26M. Few days back, I attended a friend’s destination wedding. Around 25 of us were there mostly childhood friends and people I’ve known for years. Met a lot of them after a really long time, so vibe was good.
I also met one of my old female friends after ages. After the sangeet night, almost everyone got drunk. Somehow I ended up with a room to myself. I told her casually, since we’re good friends, if she wanted she could crash in my room.
Late night she came. After just 5 minutes of lying there, she asked, “hum kuch nahi karne wale hai?”
One thing led to another, and we ended up hooking up. We were both completely in our senses, it was mutual, and honestly it felt normal in that moment.
But somehow, people got to know about it. Since then, after the wedding, a lot of people have been talking, gossiping, and making it into a big deal. Some of my own close friends even joked about it and kinda spread it further.
Now it’s been weeks, and I keep thinking, did I mess up? Was it wrong to do something like this at a wedding? Feels like people are judging me and my image is affected.
Am I overthinking this… or is this actually something that people will remember and judge me for long term?