How do I bring up to my husband that I'm feeling unloved/not cared about? We've been married just shy of 4 years. My love language is gifts, his is acts of service. I make a conscious effort to do things for him, to help ease the load & show him i love him in this way. I have not received a card, of any sort, since we were dating. Not for a birthday, not an anniversary. I literally can't even remember the last time HE bought me flowers or a gift that actually showed some thought.
I feel really guilty even talking out loud about this, but its so hard not to feel unloved. :( I have one single piece of jewelry from him, and its not even my wedding ring. I was given a promise ring and that is the only piece of jewelry I have from HIM. I've never been given a necklace, whether cheap or expensive, and the last handful of times I've gotten flowers, I have picked them out and purchased them myself.
I know in the grand scheme of things I guess its not really a big deal, but it just makes me think of the saying "if he wanted to he would", and he clearly just doesn't want to.