I don’t want people at the hospital during/after birth.
I only want my husband at the hospital. I don’t want a bunch of people coming in and out of the room. ( I’m having a c section) I don’t want people in my space while I’m laid up in a hospital gown, messy, tired and dirty. His family and my family can be over whelming and too much. I love them all. My husband doesn’t understand this and I’m a little frustrated. I had my first child really young and it was so overwhelming with everyone in and out just touching my baby, in my space while I was in that damn gown feeling gross and feeling like I had no control. But my best friend said this could cause tension between family and his and seem off putting and rude even if he doesn’t feel that way but his sister did this and no one wanted to see her or the baby after that? What do I do…