u/Etherial_external

my dad will literally make me cry and then threaten to hit me if i don’t stop crying.. like huh? how does that even work? Today i was driving (js started learning..) and he’s genuinely acting like i should know EVERYTHING. He’s fucking yelling at me, screaming his lungs out and literally threatening to beat the shit out of me so ofc i’m gonna cry 🤦🏾‍♀️ And to apparently stop me from crying he says he’s gonna beat me? like okay..

My manager was asking for my availability and as i was sending it my dad js kept complaining 🤦🏾‍♀️ Talking bout “why would u be working till 8PM, that’s so late” and his reasoning is because he can’t take care of himself. He’s talking bout how i have things to do at home (cook, clean, serve him) and how i have to take care of my 14 year old brother. I’m 17 with no job, experience, and no money for uni. My dad wastes his money on some dumbass business in nigeria that isn’t even working out. I was tryna tell him that im obv not going to be working everyday and i work for a few hours, not a few days. This nga starts threatening me saying he’ll stop me from working.. MIND U he asks me for money every other day.. Even for uni, he was like “idk how that’s gonna work yada yada, idk how you’ll go to uni cuz who is gonna take care of ur brother” YOU ARE HIS PARENT!!