AITH for calling my mother ungreatfull?
I (13f) and my mother (30+f) have an amazing relationship. I trust her with my secrets, my crushes everything. But. She has one thing that I really dont like. She never really cooks. Ever since me and my siblings and I started cooking, it's like she suddenly can't
She has me making her food while my older brother was at work, and my other siblings are doing chores.
And I wouldn't mind me making her food. I love doing things for her. But she's ungrateful about it.
For example, last week, I made her 2 grilled cheese sandwiches. And they were slightly burnt, not enough to taste it. And iv made them like that for her before, and she said that she loved it that way. And she would not even eat them unless I made them that way. But then I made them like that for her this time, and she immediately said
"This is burnt,"
Without even a thank you or a taste so I remade them and gave thoughs ones to my siblings. I made her new ones the way she wanted golden brown and gave them to her. And she complained that the cheese wasn't melted, so I put them in the micro wave because if I put it on the stove, it would be burnt. And she complained it wasn't crispy.
So I just clenched my jaw and made her new ones. And she complained again!
I was just sick and tired of it, so I put the plate on her desk (she was in her office working on her computer), and I just started yelling, saying something along the lines of.
"Can't you just be great full!? I went out of my way to make you food, and you say it's bad? Do you not know the words? Thank you? Or are you too ungrateful for that!?"
She went completely silent, and I immediately felt bad and told me to get out, and I did closing her offic door quietly. It's been a week now, and it's still very tense between us, and she hasn't asked me to do barely anyone but I think im in the right and I think what I did was valid because this isent the first time it's happend.
Idk my siblings, dad, and some friends are saying im TAH because she's still my mother, and she raised me. But Idk if I said that to her, she would have done the same thing I did. Idk AITAH?