u/Entire_Spend_9093

I failed my first iui and today I had my second iui. After my procedure,my doctor sat me down to talk about using a donor egg if this cycle fails. I felt disappointed and I cried all the way home. I’m 32F with PCOS,AMH of 16ng/ml and only been with this new clinic for 6 months. We tried to get a matured follicle for 3 months which all failed till the 4th month and we triggered and had the iui which failed. And to hear this right after my procedure makes me feel like they know it’s not even going to work. They’re impressed by my husband’s sperms even though frozen, it yielded very good results after thawing.

I feel like I need more time before we have that donor talk. I want my kids to have both my husband and my dna,that’s the whole purpose of even trying. I’m just so sad,today’s been a hard day for me.

I’m currently at my clinic for my 2nd iui procedure…we did our last scan an hour ago and my follicle is still there even though we triggered 40hrs ago. We’re using a frozen sample so my doctor wants to see if I’ll ovulate before my procedure. Anyone ever trigger and not ovulate? What if we go ahead and I don’t ovulate? Sorry for the questions but I’m used to bad news so I don’t know what to think.

Finally I have 3 follicles measuring at 19mm,15mm &13mm at my cd13 scan and I’m triggering in 28hrs and iui scheduled exactly 40hrs after triggershot. Is there a chance my 15mm and 13mm may catch up? Has anyone had success with these follicles? I don’t mind multiples though.

Failed my first ever iui this month and going on second round hopefully next month but my protocol has been changed. I’m on Letrozole 10mg cd 3-9,scan on cd 9,if there’s a matured follicle we trigger,if not I continue with fsh 75iu depending on the size of my follicles..I sincerely hope this works. I had one 21mm last cycle on Clomid and fsh,hope I get more than 1 to increase my chance. Anyone have a success on this? Thanks