u/Entire-Month5256

Me, F16 was at my work and my friend ive known since elementry school F18 wanted to pick me up after my shift and go out to eat. Me and her go out to eat 1-2 times a week since we work at the same job its fun to hangout after work or even when shes off work and she has a car, she would pick me up. Me and her like going to this certain restaraunt in town, (btw this is a small town, population is like 2k.) but me and her wanted to go to mcdonolds instead because we wanted to try the new big arch burger. My mom told me to call her when im about to leave work which i totally understand because i was closing by myself and its like 9:30 at night. My friend comes in to pick me up and so i call my mom the second i leave and everything was fine. when i went to clock out and she is dinging my phone a billion times and shes like "ur loc wasnt on and i tried calling u on snap im coming to pick u up rn" like she seemed angry about it but i still go w my friend because my mom always says that and never does it. so i go look and i see that no one has called me but it was glitch but anyways.. i told her my loc was on and im going to go out to eat with F18. I cant drive btw but my friend can so she drives me everywhere lol but anyways we were going to go eat at mcdonolds. I come home at like 10:45 20 mins before my curfew and luckily she doesnt care if im a min or two late but anywyas. I go to change and i relized that i left my phone in the living room annnnddd ofc shes reading my texts. and shes like "YOU WENT TO MCDONOLDS? WITHOUT TELLING ME???" and im like "i thought u can see my loc and i told i was going out with F18 tn" and shes like crashing out about how i "lied to her" and that i was supposed to be at that restraunt i usally eat at but wtv. now she is telling me im "grounded" from F18? and grounded for the summer but honestly idk if that is even gonna happen because she says stupid shit like that when she is mad. now today i went to work at 9. in the morning. honestly its not that bad at all. then leave at 6pm. my job is fucking easy thank god and getting payed 12.50 an hour so its decent. but it was starting to get busy around 5:40 so i tell my mom can u pick me up at 6:10-20 because it is busy. so hopefully she says yes! no. shes like 'no ur not u havent had a lunch break and dinner or breakfast u have been on ur feet for too damn long im gonna have to talk to ur boss about giving u some breaks for lunch." i told her i ate at work since its a food related job. and she suspects that i have and ED??! i have before like 3 years ago but thats a dif story. now at my job, breaks are optional. and idc if i have a break or not because this job pays well and easy to do. but i do not want a break because i dont want a single cent lost. i wanna save all my money lol. but she is so fucking involved in every single friendship i have and she wonders why i am "such a liar and sneaky" and she is saying that she is giving me tooo much freedom because i can date now, and go out late. and i am thankful for that and im not taking it for granted but i feel like shes overreacting too much. she lit made me and my other bsf breakup prolly like 2 years ago because my mom was so involved. now yall are prolly like "oh thats not a good friend then" but i wouldnt wana have a friend who has strict parents and barely do anything, that sucks!! and sorry for sounding like bitch but tell me u wouldnt feel the same way? now my other friendships ive kept in secret!! deleting messages, hiding apps and just full on saying i dont have social media!. but anywayst what should i do