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Before this cut my hair was till my hipbone. i cut my hair real short almost a year ago, july 2025, it used to stop a little bit below my ears and now if i straighten it out it reaches just below my collarbone but i have curly frizzy hair and so this entire time it just looks like its shoulder length. My diet hasnt changed but i did go through extreme stress and depression the past two years and i had a lot of hair shedding during my senior year. This is really hard for me as my hair used to grow so quickly i was genuinely shocked to find my hair barely growing now. By this point it should atleast reach near bra band but it doesnt. Its gotten thicker yeah but my god i dont know how to fix it especially since my hair looks shit from how frizzy it is. My mom doesnt believe in curly hair (lmao i know) she thinks i need to brush it everyday and it will magically straighten out, she refuses to buy me curly products as she thinks my hair is beyond any help and ofcourse i dont have my own money as im only a teen under her roof.

Does anyone know anything good i can make homemade to use for my hair for growth and less frizz?

Ive been getting really unlucky online when it comes to finding friends or people to be interested in. Its rare for the convos to last more than 2 days and they usually die out before a week occurs so i feel really disheartened and dont expect much from this post either.

Some info about me im from middle east, i love walking sm and hiking as i live somewhere in the outskirts so theres a lot of mountains and nature etc. I love reading dramas and having loooong deep convos as im really nosy and curious about everyone around me

Ive been told often that i make people feel calm and noticed

I hate dry texters (im obviously not expecting texts quickly or 24/7 but i absolutely hate being left on delivered for hours on end for no reason), i hate carrying convos and one of my biggest pet peeves are inconsiderate people and people who smack their lips whilst eating🙄

And i love stupid conspiracy theories because the world is boring and needs more mystery and flavor

Please dont reach out if youre not going to put effort in ur introduction or ask questions. I hate being the only one asking questions about the other party lmao

I have really short attention span, adhd alongside chronic migraines so its difficult for me to sit down and study for long hours. I find this especially hard when its comes to lots of lectures of histology and whatever.

Whats the best way to understand and remember things quickly in a short amount of time instead of just studying all day long?

Alright ive lived in kurdistan for a long time now but ive been to international schools only so i interact with classmares only in english, i also dont go outside to socialize with others in kurdish so theres that. (Not to mention i never had anyone help teach me kurdish not even the teachers so i was only good at self study but being your own teacher isnt reliable enough). But in med school i realized i need to learn kurdish asap just incase.

For reference i understand kurdish about 70% percent i just have a hard time answering because im really shy and forget my words quickly in kurdish. I also dont have problem in studying kurdish i find it easy but the problem is speaking kurdish.

Any apps? Sites?

Idk what other subreddit to post this in i only found this one but;

I need university students advise please, im first year med in koya and im not sure about whether i want to transfer to hawler medical uni (as im from hawler) and honestly im really stuck. Everyone i know here say that theyre gonna transfer and i dont reallt wanna be alone here in dormitory etc, i personally find koya uni professors difficult to understand as they dont help much, but the thing is i dont want to REPEAT stage 1 again, frankly i never wanted to get into med school, i dont like being med student so the idea of being in med school for 7 years instead of 6 js bc i have to repeat the year to meet hawlers standard is ridiculous to me and it makes SO depressed like i dont wanna go through this again. But my mental health is collapsing here and im struggling so bad.

I also heard that the degree u obtain from UOK is weak and not qualified for international exam taking, like im worried that i wont be able to study abroad like in europe bc of where i got my degree from. Like apparently hawler is the best ugh.

Please advise? Something?