Rude Doctor
I don't want to share this but this is necessary for context.
I grew up with very strict parents and abusive parents. My father used to call me really bad things and it really hurt. And he used to argue with me on anything like for example I liked wearing short length socks and he used to argue with me on that. And one time he pulled a knife on my mother. Really abusive house old.
And also they were helicopter parents.
As I grew up my mental health started getting bad and I started getting aggressive in the house and my attention span dropped and I couldn't sit in one place and other adhd symptoms.
They took me to many doctors/psychiatrist but we didn't get results
Finally they took me to one doctor. This guy was one of the best in the city. He diagnosed me with adhd.
But he was very rude to me. For example I tell him that medicines causes my hands to shake and he was very rude to me as well in telling me that this shake happens to everyone but then one day the shaking went out of control and then he started acknowledging it.
I told him that my parents are super strict and they are helicopter parents and he said that he doesn't even know what helicopter parents are and it might be just a word created my bloggers to get more readers.
Then one day I asked him that how long do I have to take these medicines and he got offended by it. And then he very rudely told me that I am not traumatized and I should just move on. It's true that I am not traumatized but this thing has been stuck in my brain for years and it makes me wanna cry.
I changed doctors and then the new doctors told me that I don't have adhd and it's just anxiety.
Idk what to believe anymore. But that statement that I should just move on makes me want to cry.