u/EntertainmentGlad794

As y’all seen countries may be preparing for a draft soon. Does that mean more shorties for me?

i feel like both libraries have their own population demographic. Like the people u will see in DC r wayyy different than the people u will see in DP. Different fashion, different haircuts, just different.

Im coming straight to the source. For some reason I keep attracting studs/butches who always try hitting on me (im a straight male). Im not sure what im doing but I look manly. But whenever im out somehow a stud finds me and tries to holla. I cant stop it.

Ive tried wearing extra manly colognes, growing out my beard. Nothings working.

As studs/butches what are somethings you would do to deter yourself from hitting on a man?

I’ve talked to a pretty decent amount of people this term, (first,second,third years) and a topic that almost always comes up is how hard it was for them to make friends here. About 95% of people i spoke to said they had a very hard time making friends.

Most first years i spoke to said they had put quite the effort in order to find new friends (going to events, trying to talk to people, etc.). A lot even boasted about other schools like mac, western, and how they see all their friends meeting new people, going on exchange terms with new friends. One guy told me he plays pool every single day at V1 and still hasnt even made an actual friend.

In a quite a few of these instances ive noticed the person actually becoming somewhat clingy due to me being one of their few friends. (hence the post)

From what it seems most people are lonely but nobody wants friends? Whats the problem here?