How would you react to the situation?
I've been married for 20 years. The entire time my husband's been very secretive with his computer and phone. He also spendsA LOT of time in his office on video games. He overspends on all his hobbies and won't show me any credit card bills or bank statements. A few weeks ago he left his computer open when he went shopping so I took a quick peek and I saw a bunch of pictures of naked women and I started snooping. He was logged into a Reddit account where he was the creator and moderator for communities about androphagia and had visited dolcett fantasy sites, and had created explicit photos and stories involving cannibalism p***.. I had no idea what those fantasies were , but was horrified when I googled them and found out they have to do with cannibalism p*** and eating people alive and ripping them apart. His stories were labeled as containing extreme graphic violence, face sitting, eating people alive, cannibalism, and gore. When I confronted him, he got extremely angry with me for snooping and called me a judgmental prude and told me I was in the wrong for going on his computer. Ever since then, it's been nothing but deflecting and blaming me for snooping. I was nervous having him around the kids after discovering the extent photos fantasy and he told me I was over exaggerating. I took pictures and he threatened me with a letter from a criminal lawyer to delete the photos. How would you feel and react if you found this out bout your husband and a father of your kids? We are now going through a divorce by he refuses to move out and it'ving so slowly. We've been living together for 2 and 1/2 months since I found this out and it's incredibly awkward and stressful.... Does anyone have any suggestions on how to handle this?