u/Enough_Net_5352

I’ve been with him for a year. Him and my best friend are the only people I’ve found that can understand me. And I know a lot of people. We’ve talked about marriage and kids. If nothing else happens, we both feel like this is it.

My career doesn’t have good prospects because I’m a fresh grad in an industry that historically doesn’t do well. Compared to my peers who graduated with me I’m doing fine. But it’s not a stable situation. I’m okay with my situation but I’m not satisfied due to being anxious about the uncertainty.

I got a job offer on the other side of the world that pays really well. It’s not my dream job. I know I will suffer in a new country in an unexciting job but my career will be set because of the prestige of the job.

While I’m used to LDR, my bf will not be able to do it because he wouldnt be able to be there for me enough and doesn’t want resentment to build up.

I’m in the US but I’m not from here. Moving for the job will make me slightly closer to my family but it will require me to change my whole lifestyle to adapt.

I can’t decide what to do. I have a few days. What do you all think?

TLDR high paying job offer that would end my wonderful relationship and require adaptation to a difficult country, what to do?

Location: California

I just interviewed for a gallery assistant position. I thought I would be W2 for sure but they said I would be 1099.

They said I can discuss the hours, but the position is on-site because the job requires it.

But according to the ABC test, I don't necessarily fulfill prong B or C.

- I also don't necessarily "perform work that is outside the usual course of the hiring entity’s business". My job scope includes making/formatting some books, which will fulfill that, yes, but they also said I will be helping out with the gallery's operations.

- I am not "customarily engaged in an independently established trade, occupation, or business of the same nature as the work performed for the hiring entity" because I don't have an LLC and there's just no such thing as an independent contractor gallery assistant the same way there would be for a plumber.

What complicates things is that the company hiring me is a a California non-profit public-benefit corporation. I don't know if that changes things.

I really need help! I feel so trapped!