u/EnoughPersonality349

How much money should I be making?

Hello, I made a post on the subreddit a little earlier this week because I just found out I’m going to be a father at 22. What I didn’t say or ask in that post is if I make enough money now to be able to provide for a baby. Right now I make anywhere between $500-$800 a week waiting tables. Sometimes I will make over $800. I currently have about $30,000 saved up and have no debt (as of right now). I’m about to finish college. The mother of my child has about $800 in medical debt. Once she starts her new jobs she will be making about $2,400 a month. Do we make enough right now as it is? What should I be making a week/month?

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u/EnoughPersonality349 — 17 hours ago

I’m going to be a dad

Hello, I just recently found out my girlfriend of 5 years is pregnant. We are both 22 and this is extremely unexpected because she has an iud. My parents know and her mom knows. What stuff do I need to do to get ready for the baby. I have about 30k saved in the bank. I have a job, and I’m a semester away from graduating. She is about a year out from graduating. She also has a job. I also have two cats. I am not ready to be a parent. Any and all advice is appreciated.

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u/EnoughPersonality349 — 2 days ago
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Girlfriend (22) is pregnant with a Kyleena IUD

Hello, this morning, my girlfriend (22) and I (22) found out she was pregnant. The thing is, she has had a Kyleena for three years. We haven't had any scares or anything since she got it put in. We don't know if the pregnancy is viable, but she goes to the doctor on Monday or Wednesday to see. I didn't know where else to post this. If anyone could tell me of their experience or if you have any advice, that would be cool.

UPDATE:

Her body temperature dropped almost a whole degree from yesterday. She also had another pregnancy test done this morning. This time it was a digital test. The weird part of this is that when she opened it, it was flashing yes or no. She still took the test and it said negative today. I just don't know what's going on.

UPDATE:
She just started bleeding. What does this mean.

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u/EnoughPersonality349 — 5 days ago