Old childhood friend asked me to babysit but I’m not comfortable with it, idk how to say no
So an old childhood friend just recently moved back into the state where all her family lives and where I live, her brothers wedding is coming up in a few weeks and it’s childfree. She called me the other day asking if my mom and I could watch her child, I am free on that day, but I am not comfortable with children especially small ones, the baby is almost 2, also has only met me and my mom twice for like 5 minutes once when she was a few months old and when she turned 1, so my mom and I are like complete strangers and I just have a feeling when my friend leaves for the day, the baby will cry because we are just strangers to her . I also have an anxiety disorder and I just get overwhelmed with children in general, I’ve never really babysat before minus my little sis years ago, idk what to do in an emergency situation, idk cpr for small kids, I’m just not comfortable. My mom would also be around to watch the child but she has back issues so she can’t do much, I know everything would land on me. The thing is idk how to say anything to her because she has NO one else in the state who she trusts, all the family will be at the wedding. I feel like I HAVE to say yes to her or she’ll be upset with me, I’m trying to get over the people pleaser in me. I know I just need to call her and let her know that I can’t do it so she can find someone hopefully because i don’t want to be the reason she can’t go to the wedding idek why im thinking that way because it’s her kid and her responsibility but I am genuinely SO anxious to tell her no. Also idk if you want ages but I am 23F and my friends is 24F.