AITA for calling her lazy?
I live with my girlfriend and I’ve just started noticing just how lazy she can be. It can be small things like asking me to grab her charger or a drink from another room instead of getting it herself or something h bigger like always expecting me to go to the shop if we need anything.
It’s started annoying me so I told her I wanted to talk. I mentioned to her it’s getting by annoying that she’s expecting me to run around after her while she just sits down doing nothing. I pointed out she doesn’t even bother going to another room to grab something but if needed and it’s always her expense ring me to do it.
I pointed out she refuses to walk 10 mins to the shop and again expects me to do it. I said I’m not there to run around after her and her laziness is started to piss me off. I said she’s perfectly capable of getting things herself yet can barely be bothered to get up off the sofa.
She said I was being too harsh towards her but I just asked her what I’d said that was incorrect. She said she wasn’t lazy but couldn’t explain why she doesn’t bother to get up and get her own things, she just repeated that I was being cruel towards her.
AITAH for telling her to stop being lazy?