u/EngineerOk910

So I understand my husband's PA has nothing to do with me, and I never really had insecurities about what he was looking at (obviously I wasn't okay with it) but I was a confident person and knew that this was a him issue, not because of me. He used to watch everything under the sun to get his fix. But for a while now he has been only watching a certain race, total opposite of how I look, and admitted he's attracted to women of that race. This feels different from him just looking at whatever and more intentional. It hurts. Is this just a current "fixation" of his? I don't know. So tired of dealing with all this.