u/EmuComprehensive4479

So I’m 18 female and the guy I’ve been snapping is 20 male. He just turned 20 and I just turned 18. I knew who he was for a awhile bc he lives in he same town as me and I always found him attractive and we used to snap about 3 or 4 years ago and he asked to pick me up but at the time I didn’t care too. I added him again and we have been snapping and I don’t think he remembers that we use to snap so when we snapped he complemented me a few times and I complemented him a few times and we talked about if I’m going to college and how he is graduating college in a few days. We started snapping for about a month and just recently started to have actual conversations. A week later we continue to snap and he said that we should hang out some time. I am also first on his best friends list but that also means nothing. I find him extremely attractive but I’m so nervous to hang out with a guy alone bc I never know what anyone’s intentions are. I don’t want to ask bc he’s older than me and I don’t want to sound stupid. I know nothing about him really and I’m big on not wanting to waste my time or getting attached if it’s never gonna be anything bc I get obsessed quickly. I also heard about 4 years ago back when he was in highschool from my best friends other friend (that’s the same age as him) that If I want to hang w him do it for a hu and don’t expect much bc he allegedly cheated on one of his gf in highschool. Ik that highschool boys are gross and do that but it’s been years and u would think he’s grown and mature to not do that now and had all his fun in college?
I never had a bf but I have had people that I talked to/liked but it never went anywhere more bc I was scared to hang out with them or they played in my face