Trigger warning for rape and abuse
My ex before the last used to rape and abuse me regularly, even after we broke up because we were still living together in the same room in the same bed. I moved towns to get away from her and start fresh, and since I’ve moved here I’ve found out from her two other exes that they went through the exact same thing that I did, and that there’s also other victims.
My most recent ex who knew about all of this has now become friends with my abusive ex, and is now messaging all my friends saying that I was the one that raped her.
I don’t want to have to keep posting evidence and bringing back all of those feelings, but I’m not sure what to do in this situation. It makes me feel violently ill that she is accusing me of being the rapist, but I’m also not sure why I’m surprised considering she did the same thing to the two other exes who are also victims.
Any advice is greatly appreciated, I’m spiralling and not sure where to go from here. I feel like I’m being haunted and I can’t eat or relax.