Am I wrong for not allowing him to stay with us?
My (27f) unborn child’s father (30M) and I have been living together for a little over two years. It was cool in the beginning we went out, traveled, and had really great times together. About 6 months into living w each other he lost his job (he was actually in the wrong and deserved to be terminated) and was unable to help with the house much. Over the next year he fell into a depression and was mentally and financially checked out for the most part. I began to pay for everything his stuff too like car insurance, food, etc. Eventually he did find work again & began to contribute a little here and there but I ended up pregnant during a birth control transition from IUD to the pill. (dumb I know, also didn’t have many options bc of the laws changing in my state as far as termination timing. there was already a heartbeat when I found out) From this point on it was like a switch flipped and he hated me. Not too long after finding out he ended up going to jail and during that time his mom and I were supporting him and I was also taking care of home. He got out and started treating me worse. Trying to physically intimidate me, verbally abuse me, threatening me, bullying my cat or threatening to throw her outside, and overall just being a toxic and mean man. He also smoked in the house a lot and during my pregnancy I developed a strong aversion to the smell but he didn’t care and would still do it in the house. He was also not supportive at all during the pregnancy. Didn’t want to help pick out names, look at ultrasound images, go to appointments, etc. Since I allowed him to stay in my place and he was so disruptive in my neighborhood (literally cussing out the manager and driving crazy) the leasing office found out and made my lease nonrenewable forcing me to find new living arrangements just before my baby was to be born. We discussed for months whether we would live together when this happened but he said he wasn’t going to stop smoking in the house even after baby was born so I decided I didn’t want to live with him and began looking for places. Once I found one I gave my leasing office 60 day noticed and told him as well the exact date the lease would end and that he would need to have his place by then. Originally the lease ended a month after my due date but I wanted her and I to have a permanent and comfortable home to come home. The earliest I could move out was 15 days before my due date but I moved into my new place 45 days before the due date and have been paying bills for both places alone because I wanted him to get on his feet to find an apartment so I didn’t make him pay me anything since February when we talked about living separately and I knew I made more money than him and would be fine. Well now we’re a week from the lease ending and he has no place to go and has been refusing to move out of the old apartment until the day the lease actually ends even though I have to have cleaners go there and clean everything so I don’t have to pay so much money because I lost the deposit when my lease became nonrenewable. He’s blaming me for his situation and saying he won’t be there for our child and that he could never coparent with someone like me.
**TL;DR;** :
Am I wrong for leaving him with no place to go? Does it seem as though I’m being malicious to him?