Am I a bad mom for letting family hold my baby?
I've felt guilty of letting my family hold my newborn (because I love my baby so much I want others to feel that love). I only felt this way after my MIL said "it's odd to think that the mother is okay with letting others hold her baby". I was baffled. Especially because her, FIL, and my dad have been the only ones to hold my baby. Idk I had to justify why I was okay with it (nobody also wants to help with cooking, cleaning, etc.) It was an odd thing to point out. My husband ended up telling me that she was overprotective of her kids, but I am only like that when friends or strangers have met our baby. My husband defended his mom's position and wondered why I was upset by it, but it just rubbed me the wrong way. My mom passed away a couple of years ago, and I'm getting frustrated by being a FTM and having zero experience with babies.
Idk, am I a bad mom for wanting to share my baby with family?