u/Emotional_Wreck25

So my gf (F26) and I (M25) haven't had sex in like 5 months. I communicate how im feeling and the kind of intimacy I would like and she seems very much not even willing to think about it or talk about it. She tells me she wants to but then nothing happens. This has happened quite a bit in our relationship. We've been together for 5 years. Longest dry spell was 8 months. Im too a point where I really wanna bring up an open relationship or something so I could get the physical intimacy I so desperately crave. I know it kind of sounds selfish but I dont know what to do.