we've talked about why he accuses me and he says it's trauma from his past relationship and is trying to work on it. we've been together eight months and he ended things with her two years ago.
any time I'm hanging out with my mom or friends he calls me twenty times to make sure, i send pics of who I'm with and where i am but that still isn't enough for him. if i don't answer his calls, he will start to tell me he has a bad feeling that I'm cheating on him and he is overly anxious about when i'll be home. i've never cheated in my life nor have i ever given him a reason to believe I'm not loyal. it's frustrating because we have this conversation so often and he promises he won't accuse me but twenty minutes later he will accuse me again. he says he isn't cheating on me and only loves me, i think he's the one who is actually cheating. i did catch him calling his ex a few months ago but she lives in a diff state and over 20 hours away.
i try to break up with him but he won't let me