My best friend has bpd and we facetime and text everyday, until she gets into a relationship where it then changes to radio silence.
She has done this in the past and when she returns months or years later she apologizes and is unable to articulate why she ghosted and often would put the blame on her abusive ex. Well now she is in a new relationship with someone who hopefully is a good guy, but now that they are talking I am getting the same silent treatment.
I am sure she is overwhelmed with emotions and I just am unsure how to be supportive. I am here to ask how you guys would think it is best to proceed when the isolation is at full force:
Should I accept her ghosting and leave her be?
Should I continue to show up to her yoga classes (she is a teacher) and act like I don’t notice the ghosting and have more of a client/instructor relationship?
Should I stay way and just send check ins every couple months?
Any advice or insight of what you feel when you are isolating is welcome 🙏 thanks!