Am I too sensitive?
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I was at my parents house for mothers day and we actually had a decent visit. My dad is ubpd and my mom is somewhere between bpd and histrionic personality disorder. After a conflict free and calm visit, 2 days later I get some angry texts that my 9 year old son took the top off of their gumball machine to get some prizes out and left a mess. They claim its happened a couple of times, we are only there once a month. He shouldn't have done that, but the gumball machine is for the grandchildren. This is a situation where I know we did something wrong...but I just can't imagine feeling the need to send an angry text days later about a grandchild leaving a mess. Am I too sensitive? Am I over reacting?? I have no idea how to sense the appropriateness of my feelings. I'm ok with not being validated if I am in the wrong. I know they are in a bit of a tizzy about hantavirus and I wonder if they are just distracting themselves?
*edit: I apologized and they acted like it was totally no big deal and then asked me to go camping with them. I have whiplash.