u/EmotionProfessional8

Hey everyone! For context I’m 20m and in community college. I’ve sorta been a bum my whole life lol. Havent done shit since the pandemic and fell off hard. I lost my social skills and didn’t take care of my self. Only till recently did I get my first job as a cashier at a grocery store. I’ve never had a true romantic experience before, only liking girls in middle and high school but never actually going through with anything because I was too scared. I’ve never had a gf before and I’m envious of my friends because they seem to do it effortlessly. (Breakup w someone then get w someone new weeks later) I’m completely lost on how I should approach changing my situation, like, is cold approaching still viable? Idk how to even start. Thank you!