u/Emmlair101

So I have this friend that I made during the past summer (I was at work when she came to customer service and I helped her and we both looked familiar to each other so we exchanged instas and turns out we went to the same high school n even attended elementary in a diff city at the same time and had no idea so it’s like some red string theory I swear) and since then we hung out lots and talked a lot and I was so excited to finally have a close Muslim friend since I don’t have many.

However, for some reason during Ramadan she became distant? I don’t know if I did anything wrong but every time I would ask to hangout or I’d ask her if she wants to go pray taraweeh with me she would always be busy. Our birthday came up in the beginning of April and we wished each other happy birthday and I even got her a gift but again she didnt put in any effort from her side to hangout and we haven’t really messaged since. I’m just so confused. April 20th there was some first come first serve interviews thing going on so I asked her if she wanted to come with me since i know she was looking for a job too but she never even responded to my messages.

I’m just so lost, I thought she was gonna be a life long friend, but it’s not even been a year and our friendship is already falling apart and I don’t even know why. I don’t know if I’m overthinking or not. Should I confront her about it or is it better to just let go and move on?

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u/Emmlair101 — 10 days ago