u/Emergency_Tap_5504

Have you all felt like you lost your "queer card" just because you end up in a straight relationship? ( And no I'm not talking about the bi's that ditch their partner last minute to be in a straight relationship...I'm talking about those who are secure in their bisexuality). I've noticed many gays and lesbians hating on bisexuals for this reason.....as if we've abandoned them to live a comfortable life in society. I do know that being in a straight passing relationship is easier but I feel like one thing many forget is that most bisexual people don't like the typical heterosexual roles and dynamics in a straight relationship. I don't know for you all....but I personally don't like it...man do x women do y in a het relationship....we're all just too straight for the gays and gay for the straight 😩. Plus we can't control ourselves from who we fall in love with 🤷🏼‍♀️