TLDR : is sending a shirtless selfie to my old situationship cringe.
Hey everyone.
Long story short I was seeing this guy for about a month and it was going well till he sent a text saying he has too much on and thinks he was too tired to be feeling it.
It’s been about 3 months since then and he has been posting on social media a lot for someone that says they are working too much to see someone.
For context he is a gym guy and although he was a little on the fluffier side when we were seeing each other he has since lost weight and is leaner.
I’m also a gym person but have always carried too much fat too look good. Since then I have really leaned out and even I will admit (as someone that is self critical) I look good shirtless.
I feel like he stopped seeing me as he might have not been that attracted to me which is understandable as my physique was not great and I probably would not be attracted to me. A little self degradation I know.
I like him and want to ask him to try again but would probably have to send a shirtless selfie and feel like that would be a bit cringe?
Do we feel like sending or posting shirtless selfies in cringe and vain in general?