“We’ve been dating for more than 4.5 years. he has never talked about the future or marriage. Whenever I used to ask, he would avoid the topic. Earlier I used to think maybe he won’t leave me, he will eventually accept it.
But last year we had a big fight about this. Then he said, ‘Okay, I will marry you, but after 5 years, when both your career and mine are settled. Not right now.’
At that time, I felt happy hearing this—at least he was saying he would marry me.
Then I asked him to at least soft launch me on social media. We had another big fight about that too. He said, ‘Okay, I’ll do it later. Right now I don’t have time, I want to focus on my career.’
When I forced him, he posted a story but didn’t really care much.
Today I told him to at least introduce me (soft launch) to his family, and he said no. He said, ‘Not now. I don’t feel anything right now—no love, nothing. I’m stressed about my career. I can’t think about all this.’
He just says, ‘Stay with me. We’ll think about marriage later anyway.’
Please tell me what I should do. I can’t handle hearing all this.