I have been texting her for a month and have known her for 3 years and liked her for about 2.5 years. After texting daily fir 2 weeks I was finaly thinking I had a chance. I probly dont after reading our over 100 messages I relised I always text first and if I dont text we usually just dont talk. She sometimes doesn't even respond to my texts. I at first hoped this just meant she was not seeing me as close as I wished but I have since relised it probly means she has no feelings beyond friends 💔.

I now really have 3 choices in my mind

A. Stay as friends and ignore my feelings

B. Confess to her and try to stay friends through it.

C. Confess to her but block her after so I can move on easier.

I need advice from someone with more experience then me.

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“Between the Scenes”
Verse 1
Three years of passing spotlights,
Paint on the stage floor lights,
Names on cast lists fading,
But somehow you stayed in mine.
From Matilda lines to late-night bows,
To laughing when the props fell down,
I never thought too much back then,
Now I replay it all again.
And every show became a memory
I didn’t know I’d want to keep,
Back when life still felt so wide
And graduation was a distant thing.

Pre-Chorus

And maybe you never knew,
How every crowded room got quiet
When I found you.
How somehow every little moment
Started meaning something too.

Chorus

Somewhere between the scenes,
Between the curtains and the silver screens,
I think I fell for the way you laugh
Like the hard days never last.
And I know life keeps changing sets,
People leave and lights go dead,
But if this story ends someday,
I’m still glad you were in it anyway.
Cause somewhere between rehearsed lines
And all these late-night drives home,
You became the part of growing up
I don’t think I’ll outgrow.

Verse 2

Funny how a single text
Can turn a whole week upside down,
How waiting for your name to pop up
Can make time slow down somehow.
And seeing you after a month away
Shouldn’t have felt that big,
But suddenly all the overthinking stopped
The second you walked in.
And maybe that’s what scared me most,
How natural it all could be,
Like talking to you felt less like trying
And more like finally breathing.

Pre-Chorus 2

I kept thinking there’d be more time,
Another play, another chance,
Another year before the ending
Started moving way too fast.
But now every final bow
Feels heavier somehow.

Chorus

Somewhere between the scenes,
Between growing up and almost leaving,
You became a memory
I know I’m gonna keep.
And I don’t need some movie ending,
Don’t need perfect timing too,
I just know these years meant more
Because somewhere in them there was you.
And if life pulls us different ways,
If the spotlight finally fades,
I think part of me will always stay
Backstage in those days.

Bridge

Maybe we’re just two names someday
On an old playbill nobody saves,
Maybe all these moments disappear
Into photos that slowly age.
But I swear I can still see
The stage lights in your eyes,
Still hear the crowd applauding
On those cold November nights.
And maybe that’s the strange thing,
How people become part of you,
Without even trying to.

Final Chorus

Somewhere between the scenes,
Between who we were and who we’ll be,
I think you changed something in me
Without even realizing.
And maybe nothing changes now,
Maybe life just pulls us out,
But if I had one line to choose,
I think my favorite part was you.
Not the endings or the applause,
Not the roles or who we were,
Just all the quiet in-between moments
That still echo after the curtain falls.
So if this is just a chapter,
If someday it’s only memory,
Then I hope you know
You meant more than you’ll ever probably see.

“Between the Scenes”

Verse 1
Three years of passing spotlights,
Paint on the stage floor lights,
Names on cast lists fading,
But somehow you stayed in mine.

From Matilda lines to late-night bows,
To laughing when the props fell down,
I never thought too much back then,
Now I replay it all again.

And every show became a memory
I didn’t know I’d want to keep,
Back when life still felt so wide
And graduation was a distant thing.

Pre-Chorus
And maybe you never knew,
How every crowded room got quiet
When I found you.
How somehow every little moment
Started meaning something too.

Chorus
Somewhere between the scenes,
Between the curtains and the silver screens,
I think I fell for the way you laugh
Like the hard days never last.

And I know life keeps changing sets,
People leave and lights go dead,
But if this story ends someday,
I’m still glad you were in it anyway.

Cause somewhere between rehearsed lines
And all these late-night drives home,
You became the part of growing up
I don’t think I’ll outgrow.

Verse 2
Funny how a single text
Can turn a whole week upside down,
How waiting for your name to pop up
Can make time slow down somehow.

And seeing you after a month away
Shouldn’t have felt that big,
But suddenly all the overthinking stopped
The second you walked in.

And maybe that’s what scared me most,
How natural it all could be,
Like talking to you felt less like trying
And more like finally breathing.

Pre-Chorus 2
I kept thinking there’d be more time,
Another play, another chance,
Another year before the ending
Started moving way too fast.

But now every final bow
Feels heavier somehow.

Chorus
Somewhere between the scenes,
Between growing up and almost leaving,
You became a memory
I know I’m gonna keep.

And I don’t need some movie ending,
Don’t need perfect timing too,
I just know these years meant more
Because somewhere in them there was you.

And if life pulls us different ways,
If the spotlight finally fades,
I think part of me will always stay
Backstage in those days.

Bridge
Maybe we’re just two names someday
On an old playbill nobody saves,
Maybe all these moments disappear
Into photos that slowly age.

But I swear I can still see
The stage lights in your eyes,
Still hear the crowd applauding
On those cold November nights.

And maybe that’s the strange thing,
How people become part of you,
Without even trying to.

Final Chorus
Somewhere between the scenes,
Between who we were and who we’ll be,
I think you changed something in me
Without even realizing.

And maybe nothing changes now,
Maybe life just pulls us out,
But if I had one line to choose,
I think my favorite part was you.

Not the endings or the applause,
Not the roles or who we were,
Just all the quiet in-between moments
That still echo after the curtain falls.

So if this is just a chapter,
If someday it’s only memory,
Then I hope you know
You meant more than you’ll ever probably see.

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Just saw her in the play she was in, she did wonderful and I am glad she invited me. Seeing her today made me relise that I dont want to lose her, now I want to tell her how I feel but I'm worried it would be to sudden even though I have known her for 3 years and have been texting her for 3 weeks. Please help.

I am so excited to see her tomorrow its been 2 months and after 3 weeks of texting I am so ready to see her in-person again. Im also nervous and dont know what km going to say when I see her. 19 hours till I see her.

Title says it all! I am so beyond excited but also supper nervous and dont know what I'm going to say when I see her again.

Asked her to movie night but she is in a play that day so she can’t make it. I’d go to her play but Im running movie night. 😞 another unsuccessful attempt but I won’t give up yet.