u/ElectronicVast1850

actual people pleasers would most likely have trouble identifying it; they’d never just go around telling people. like the worst person you know is screaming from the rooftops:
‘gosh you guysuh!! i’m such a people pleaser, with such a sensitive kind soul like elle woods!’ damn well knowing they haven’t pleased a soul in their life. name five people you’ve pleased, quick!!

they use it as a way to manipulate people into thinking they’re just an innocent little thing that can’t even comprehend doing wrong. a roundabout way of saying ‘i promise you can trust me’ (you can’t, don’t do it)

honestly, i feel a little weird when anyone calls themselves kind. without saying ‘my friends describe me as …’ like are you sure about that or are you just trying to feel good about yourself?

i just ate like an ever so slightly larger amount of food and it’s really hurting me. i’ve eaten way more than this; double maybe even triple that amount before and i’ve never felt like this. i’m actually sobbing; and not because of the guilt but because of the actual pain. i’m trying to walk off the pain while typing this on the treadmill and i’m still crying from it. there’s no reason to be feeling like this from a fair and not crazy amount of food i feel like i messed my body up or something but i’ll worry about that later. can anyone recommend anything else to make the pain go away? i’m already ‘lightly walking’ as recommended and i still feel like im about to kneel over