I went to college across the country before coming home and meeting my fiancee. I have several friends who live a forty hour car ride away, and some don't have the ability to take off from work or take a plane. I love these friends dearly and I don't want to exclude them.
Is there a way to send an invite that also says "you are not required to come if it would be a financial burden?" Do I not send invites at all? I'd feel like I would be leaving these friends out if I didn't send out something, but I know money is tight for everyone and I really don't want to put pressure on my friends to spend money they don't have.
Any ideas or suggestions are welcome!